if person A were to tell u bad tales abt person B.
would u tend to hate person B?
even if it ain't any feeling of hatred.
would u strt to dislike person B?
or if not, just keeping an arm's length away?

personally, in e past. i wld.
not hate. just keep an arm's length away.
but not now.
cos ppl may have different opinions abt different ppl.
and dere may be a lot of factors contributing to e dislike that they felt for e other.
If person A were to complain abt person B to me,
i'll still treat tt person B like normal.
i mean, still frens.
BUT, i will be more wary and observe for myself wad a person B is rly like.
who noes, u may find person B a fine person and rather,
person A e sly one.
u nvr noe. rte?
so nvr ever jump into conclusions just because bad things were being said abt a perticular person.

i've seen many ppl have a same approach as me (last time)
but i soon realised that,
u'll have to see for urself ,
all e things that's happening ard in life.
nvr ever judge a person just by one sided stories said by other.
so, if i were to dislike this person,
all i have to do is just to spin tales abt tt person.
and tt would make everyone dislike e latter.
tt's of cos not e rite approach .
ain't it?
so tt's y i wun do that.
i'll sure see for myself.
even if my super close frens were being said bad abt.
for super close frens in this case, i'll speak up for dem,
saying my opinions. good of cos.
but i'll see for myself too.

i hope ppl wun jump into conclusions.
u have eyes to see for urself.
y listen to others and not see for uself?
tt's wad i've seen a lot of times alr.
and within a family.
not mine of cos.